So there’s this guy you were starting to fall for and he finally asked you out. You dressed for the occasion, carried all your confidence with you and adhered to all the first date rules. Congratulations, you did well! But what happens next? Will you be going on a second date with this guy or was the first date the last?
You see, the first date should be a chance to get to know a little bit more about your date. Although you cannot know them fully on a first date, there are signs that can tell you that the person isn’t right for you. That you shouldn’t waste your time going on a second date with them.
That said, if you notice these signs, it’s probably not a good idea to go on a second date with him:
He is rude to the waiters
If he was rude to the waiters and other staff member at the hotel, it could be that that’s just how he is. I mean, you would expect a guy to behave the best way he knows how on a first date. But if he doesn’t, that’s a red flag you shouldn’t ignore.
He is overly sexual
You hardly know each other and sexual topics are the least you can talk about on a first date. They can be really awkward especially because you don’t know what the other person prefers. If a guy talks so much about sex or asks sex related questions, well, maybe sex is all he wants. If you are looking for more than sex, then don’t go on a second date with him.
He is mean to you
Maybe he doesn’t like your outfit or your hair. But still, he should make an effort to be nice to you. And if he cannot be nice to you on a first date, it’s unlikely that he will do so in the future.
He is selfish
Is he the type of guy who talks about his career, his awesome childhood, and his achievements from the beginning to the end? Even though you had already started to like him, you shouldn’t go on a second date with this guy. You need to be with someone who can also listen to you and one who shows the interest to know you more.
There’s no spark
There are things you can never force; like the way you feel towards someone. If you don’t feel some sort of attraction towards him or there’s simply no chemistry between you, then he is probably not your type.